Is this the best kind of flattering a gay guy can get?

That is a bit weird, it could be flattery (it definately isnt an insult, unless you go out hoping people will ume your gay and you try really hard at it.) I know what you mean though, when i tell people i am gay they can't believe it and say that i am too straight to be gay which i think is funny and weird because i dont think i come off as really straight, but i must.